mertua vs menantu

this topic is sensitive topic since ages ago. i think if the cavemen knew about marriage (proper marriage - not just knocking heads with their kayu), they would have same issues.

issues?

good or bad, they are still issues.
who doesnt have issues at all - let's just say they are talking bullshit.
well, to be fair, there are few who have good relationship... and mostly have disputes over even small matter.

i have a MIL.
i dont have a menantu yet as my first son is only 5 year old.

do i have issues with my MIL?
sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit...
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but let me put it this way, i have a good MIL.
she helps me alot esp when my maid ran away recently...and now i = maid!
but she helps me out a lot!

disputes?
of course, there are numbers... but i even had disputes with my own mom!

why i have this topic on my mind today?
cos sometimes aku serba salah... there were times aku tak puashati, of course aku menumpang and she has her rules...so salah aku if ada benda aku tak puashati.
kenapa aku menumpang? sebab laki aku nak menumpang rumah mak dia, dia taknak menumpang rumah mak aku wakakkaka...

well, this morning aku terpikir, MIL aku ni la yang besarkan hubby aku.
and i love him.
and kadangkala aku perasan same traits they share (eheheh... abang... u know what i am talking about!)
and they even share same birthdate!!

ada some people tried very hard to please their MILs... sebab MIL ni dalam islam dah macam mak sendiri. and it is not easy, i know cos kita semua dari asuhan berbeza.

and i solute those who have 'sort-of-bad' MIL but they tried their level best to be a good menantu...

and ada jugak menantu hantu yang tak respect MIL and in addition, dia lak yang influence the husband to ignore the mom...

it is a sad fact... but it is still a fact.

so, MIL aku not bad. she cooks everyday, cos aku mmg tak masak sebab aku tak mau dikutuk (wkakakak!!) aku masak air je...

becos she cooks everyday, and aku lak a fultime housewife, so sometimes i prefer to go out and eat... what? aku bukan ada can keluar lunch cam orang lain ok...

so, let me count my blessings and i have a good MIL and of course, nobody can replace my mom!





and those who hates your MIL, sila ingat2 one day u will become one... and you will never know what you'll become...