God created men and women differently. Adam was first created alone.. and from one of his ribs God created Eve. Many things were comprehended from this miraculous event.
from my understanding...
Men were created to lead. and women are to support them right by their 'side'...
Men are also to protect their women as they protect their ownself, hurting them is as good as hurting their own 'ribs'.
And both need each other...
Why? Why were we created different?
I remember there was one fight I had with my husband... he couldnt understand why i need to rely on him on certain things...
God gave a sense of dependency to a woman so she will always see her husband as someone she can trust, someone she can depend on, someone she feels safe with, a shoulder she can cry on... and many more
If a woman doesnt have all those feelings... imagine how a marriage would be?
A husband is independent... the wife is also independent... nobody needs anybody...
what's the point? (but dont be too dependent or clingy - it's annoying)
God created all these so that we can feel and appreciate how beautiful life is..
It is beautiful...to have somebody by your side. somebody who needs you, and you need them.
makes your life more meaningful once all these equations are fulfilled.
so, i will take our differences as our blessings. true, some differences are total wreck - but some couple's differences are meant to complete each other.
that's life...
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it's all a matter of understanding..
give n take.. and the most important of all - patience..
"ada hikmah disebalik setiap kejadian"
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