planet lain2 ke??

selalu aku dgr cerita kawan2 (and sometimes i could relate to myself) kalau bergaduh lakibini mesti sebab sorang nampak lain and the other nampak lain. in other words, different perception on the same matter. contohnya, if we were asked to describe an apple, mesti macam2 description kita dpt --- epal tu merah, epal tu ada batang, epal tu sedap, epal tu masam, epal tu crunchy etc etc....

byk points tapi tak semuanya salah and tak semestinya semua betul.

this may be a bit intimate ---18sx skit but i guess all my readers are above 18 kan kankan?

sama jugak in relationship between husband n wife. husband always want the best treatment... nak air kopi bila dia balik umah, nak baju tersusun rapi dah berbasuh n bergosok, nak anak2 semua tip top siap dah lengkap diajar ABC alif ba ta dll. and the same time, a husband also expect 'treatment utama' --- alah...buat2 tak paham lak. betul tak paham? nasib la...

ok, back to my point. most of the time, husbands forgot yang wives are not machine, diorg pun ada perasaan and kudrat yang dah abis digunakan disiang hari melayan macam2. ada wife yang bekerja sehari suntuk balik stret nak layan anak2 and husband. ada yang tak keje lak sehari suntuk jadi cikgu tadika, jadi maid and sambung lak ke malam.

errr... do not get me wrong, as a wife, aku rasa semua orang want to give the best to their husbands, want to look the best, want to BE THE BEST. tapi selalu wife lupa they ARE the best bila husband LUPA nak bermurah hati dengan pujian or sentuhan like simply saying 'thank you' for a simple coffee made or a gentle pat behind bila nampak wife tengah layan anak2 --- as a gesture that could indicate 'honey, you are good with our children, thankyou...'

ini yang ustaz fadzilah kamsan (betul ke aku eja ni??)trying to say bila dia akan bertanya balik to the husband 'macam mana you appreciate your wife?' whenever a husband tanya ustaz nape la isteri saya ni suka membebel..!! hahahaha... kot dipikir2 balik, mak2 kita pun suka membebel kan? skrg ni kita lak suka membebel... tak pun slalu putus angin towards the end of the day...sebab kita rasa penat. tugasan housewife ni dah la takde gaji... the least we expect is appreciation, which cost no $$$ but some reduction in somebody's ego.

wah.... banyak lak aku membebel...

paham ke semua? aku harap2 paham la ya :D