selalu aku dgr cerita kawan2 (and sometimes i could relate to myself) kalau bergaduh lakibini mesti sebab sorang nampak lain and the other nampak lain. in other words, different perception on the same matter. contohnya, if we were asked to describe an apple, mesti macam2 description kita dpt --- epal tu merah, epal tu ada batang, epal tu sedap, epal tu masam, epal tu crunchy etc etc....
byk points tapi tak semuanya salah and tak semestinya semua betul.
this may be a bit intimate ---18sx skit but i guess all my readers are above 18 kan kankan?
sama jugak in relationship between husband n wife. husband always want the best treatment... nak air kopi bila dia balik umah, nak baju tersusun rapi dah berbasuh n bergosok, nak anak2 semua tip top siap dah lengkap diajar ABC alif ba ta dll. and the same time, a husband also expect 'treatment utama' --- alah...buat2 tak paham lak. betul tak paham? nasib la...
ok, back to my point. most of the time, husbands forgot yang wives are not machine, diorg pun ada perasaan and kudrat yang dah abis digunakan disiang hari melayan macam2. ada wife yang bekerja sehari suntuk balik stret nak layan anak2 and husband. ada yang tak keje lak sehari suntuk jadi cikgu tadika, jadi maid and sambung lak ke malam.
errr... do not get me wrong, as a wife, aku rasa semua orang want to give the best to their husbands, want to look the best, want to BE THE BEST. tapi selalu wife lupa they ARE the best bila husband LUPA nak bermurah hati dengan pujian or sentuhan like simply saying 'thank you' for a simple coffee made or a gentle pat behind bila nampak wife tengah layan anak2 --- as a gesture that could indicate 'honey, you are good with our children, thankyou...'
ini yang ustaz fadzilah kamsan (betul ke aku eja ni??)trying to say bila dia akan bertanya balik to the husband 'macam mana you appreciate your wife?' whenever a husband tanya ustaz nape la isteri saya ni suka membebel..!! hahahaha... kot dipikir2 balik, mak2 kita pun suka membebel kan? skrg ni kita lak suka membebel... tak pun slalu putus angin towards the end of the day...sebab kita rasa penat. tugasan housewife ni dah la takde gaji... the least we expect is appreciation, which cost no $$$ but some reduction in somebody's ego.
wah.... banyak lak aku membebel...
paham ke semua? aku harap2 paham la ya :D
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
mimpi yg mengganggu jiwa
to those married people (i am sure mostly are ladies ---yg akan ada kena mengena ngan topik hari ini), once or twice or more sure korg ada mimpi yg mengganggu ketenteraman jiwa, hati dan perasaan mental (hahahah!!!)
mimpi suami ada 'org lain'!
arghhhh!!!! aku cukup tak gemar mimpi sedemikian. aku tak tau kenapa mesti ada mimpi begitu sedangkan aku takde plak terpikir pasal benda2 cenggitu. tapi still once in a blue moon akan muncul mimpi2 tahyul begitu.
so apa jadik if ada mimpi begitu?
sure bila tercelik je mata, aku akan memandang suami ku with a vengeance look--- killer look! yang dia sendiri tak akan paham apakah yg berlaku sewaktu dia tido sehingga make him deserve that 'look'!
hahahha....
memang skrg aku mampu ketawa tapi tatkala aku mengalami mimpi2 tahyul itu aku akan hangin skali lagi dan lagi dan lagi...
i just wish they also had same dreams but i doubt it --- life is not fair. just because men tend to have no (err...less) feelings, adakah itu bermaksud they are not afraid of losing us???
ye ke???
mimpi suami ada 'org lain'!
arghhhh!!!! aku cukup tak gemar mimpi sedemikian. aku tak tau kenapa mesti ada mimpi begitu sedangkan aku takde plak terpikir pasal benda2 cenggitu. tapi still once in a blue moon akan muncul mimpi2 tahyul begitu.
so apa jadik if ada mimpi begitu?
sure bila tercelik je mata, aku akan memandang suami ku with a vengeance look--- killer look! yang dia sendiri tak akan paham apakah yg berlaku sewaktu dia tido sehingga make him deserve that 'look'!
hahahha....
memang skrg aku mampu ketawa tapi tatkala aku mengalami mimpi2 tahyul itu aku akan hangin skali lagi dan lagi dan lagi...
i just wish they also had same dreams but i doubt it --- life is not fair. just because men tend to have no (err...less) feelings, adakah itu bermaksud they are not afraid of losing us???
ye ke???
Sunday, April 25, 2010
a little goes a long way
today i watched Anjakan Paradigma ---dont be surprised, itu first time aku tgk rancangan tu. and the topic was 'bila habis jodoh'
what caught my attention was the fact about how men normally want/love to maintain their bujang-attitude even after they are married.
and how less they show their appreciation to their wife. ini memang perangai most malays kan??kan? very little PDA (public display of affection). kadang2 tak payah tunggu public, tak public pun takde gak. well, the rest i leave it to your own interpretation sebab topic ni agak intimate (:-p)
about being bujang tu, dia elaborate, lelaki wpun dah kawen would still love to hang out minum teh tarik with friends at odd hours. pegi main bola ke badminton ke ---at odd hours i.e. kul 11 malam ke balik pagi. and he explained that bila dah berkeluarga, seeloknya tak payah la sebab malam spend it with anak bini. siang dah la spend ngan kawan2. ada lak kes yang bini nak follow tapi husband lak tak kasik, suh duk umah je. ooo pandai lak dia suh orang duk umah.
and come to think of it, cuba kalau kita, wives, ada the same attitude, lepas tu sapa duk umah? sapa jaga anak?
kalau nak dipikirkan dgn lebuh panjang n mengarut... this bujang attitude la yg membuat kan lelaki nak kawin lain.betul tak? ntah la....
but marriage is both ways, skrg ni bukan lelaki je dah pandai wat perangai, perempuan pun ada jugak. yang penting agama dlm diri kita yang akan menunjukkan kita jalan yang benar.
toleransi... sabar... and understanding... itu gak yang parents kita been practicing, kan?
tanpa agama, manusia is nothing :D
what caught my attention was the fact about how men normally want/love to maintain their bujang-attitude even after they are married.
and how less they show their appreciation to their wife. ini memang perangai most malays kan??kan? very little PDA (public display of affection). kadang2 tak payah tunggu public, tak public pun takde gak. well, the rest i leave it to your own interpretation sebab topic ni agak intimate (:-p)
about being bujang tu, dia elaborate, lelaki wpun dah kawen would still love to hang out minum teh tarik with friends at odd hours. pegi main bola ke badminton ke ---at odd hours i.e. kul 11 malam ke balik pagi. and he explained that bila dah berkeluarga, seeloknya tak payah la sebab malam spend it with anak bini. siang dah la spend ngan kawan2. ada lak kes yang bini nak follow tapi husband lak tak kasik, suh duk umah je. ooo pandai lak dia suh orang duk umah.
and come to think of it, cuba kalau kita, wives, ada the same attitude, lepas tu sapa duk umah? sapa jaga anak?
kalau nak dipikirkan dgn lebuh panjang n mengarut... this bujang attitude la yg membuat kan lelaki nak kawin lain.betul tak? ntah la....
but marriage is both ways, skrg ni bukan lelaki je dah pandai wat perangai, perempuan pun ada jugak. yang penting agama dlm diri kita yang akan menunjukkan kita jalan yang benar.
toleransi... sabar... and understanding... itu gak yang parents kita been practicing, kan?
tanpa agama, manusia is nothing :D
Thursday, April 22, 2010
lama nya....
lama nya aku tak membiarkan jari jemari ku berkata2 dlm blog ni. sunggoh lama...
bukan taknak, bukan tak sudi, juga bukan tak hingin tapi tak ber-facility. internet nya tade, camne nak berblog.
ok...
today aku nak berstory pasal tilik nasib dan nasib.
yesterday, tatkala aku sibuk bersiap2 utk keluar lunch bersama anak2 ku (ya, aku tak masak dirumah), tetiba loceng umah berbunyi. masa tu yg ada was just aku and harith.so aku pun bukak le pintu, and standing in front of the gate was not a delivery guy whom i always dreamed would be sending me flowers from my hubby (sekarang pun aku still berangan cenggitu), tapi seorg lelaki india.
"ooo...dia ni la duk heloo heloo kat umah sebelah tadi. tapi siapakah dia?" aku cakap sorang2 la ni.
"alo miss, saya mau kasik kad la"
aku pun yg memang sejak azali lurus bendul terus melangkah towards that guy dan amik kad dia --- Pakar Tilik Nasib --- ceh, aku dah penah kena cong ni!
"takpe boss, saya tak mau la ---haram"
ignoring what i said, mamat tu terus bercakap...
"miss, i know u think a lot. and people thought you are very rich but you are not (cilakak tulll tau lak dia) and people thought you are satisfied with your life but i know you are not"
"oh ye ke, takpe... tenkiu aaa..."
"miss, if tak mau tilik nasib kasik sedekah la skit" ---pandai lak dia mintak sedekah, god knows whether he really knows the meaning of sedekah or not but aku tau duit aku bakal burn kalau tak singgit mau lima hinggit. dan disebabkan trauma dengan kes lampau, aku kasik le lima hinggit.
dia bercakap lagi.
"next month your luck will change but (jengjengjeng) ada satu perempuan sangat jeles sama you. you tell me your mom and dad's name i will tell you everything..."
sapa lak jeles ngan aku ni?? sebab aku cun ke? sebab aku ada anak hensem ke? ke sebab aku leh tumpang duduk umah mak mertua aku? ----hahahhahah.....!!!
"takpe boss. terima kasih aaa.." cepat2 aku nak masuk umah dia cakap lagi....
"miss, boleh kasi air ka? mau minum la"
"ooo you haus? kejap aaa..." nak je aku cakap, mana ko tak haus cakap takberenti.
aku masuk dalam umah tapi hati cuak gak. teringat balik kes lama, tapi aku kuat kan semangat. aku tgk dlm tv ustaz tu cakap nak menghalang or mematahkan pukau kita kena minum air limau nipis or atleast bau. aku tak sempat nak potong limau nipis, aku amik je sebijik tu masuk dlm poket. mana la tau kot2 kena pukau lagi (ye...dulu aku penah kena pukau)...
lepas daripada tu, aku tak sure india tu leh sense aku bawak limau nipis ke or dia mmg nak blah dah ke, dia amik air and cakap aku good luck and chow! sempat cakap good luck lagi tu.
moral of the story... sentiasa la bwk limau nipis, and ustaz tu cakap gak if takleh bwk limau nipis pakai lah minyak wangi kasturi putih. minum air teh o limau ais pun ok gak :D
moral of the story ke2 nya, sapa kah org yg jeles tu... (HAHHAHAHAH!!! ----ketawa berunsur2 jahat skit)
bukan taknak, bukan tak sudi, juga bukan tak hingin tapi tak ber-facility. internet nya tade, camne nak berblog.
ok...
today aku nak berstory pasal tilik nasib dan nasib.
yesterday, tatkala aku sibuk bersiap2 utk keluar lunch bersama anak2 ku (ya, aku tak masak dirumah), tetiba loceng umah berbunyi. masa tu yg ada was just aku and harith.so aku pun bukak le pintu, and standing in front of the gate was not a delivery guy whom i always dreamed would be sending me flowers from my hubby (sekarang pun aku still berangan cenggitu), tapi seorg lelaki india.
"ooo...dia ni la duk heloo heloo kat umah sebelah tadi. tapi siapakah dia?" aku cakap sorang2 la ni.
"alo miss, saya mau kasik kad la"
aku pun yg memang sejak azali lurus bendul terus melangkah towards that guy dan amik kad dia --- Pakar Tilik Nasib --- ceh, aku dah penah kena cong ni!
"takpe boss, saya tak mau la ---haram"
ignoring what i said, mamat tu terus bercakap...
"miss, i know u think a lot. and people thought you are very rich but you are not (cilakak tulll tau lak dia) and people thought you are satisfied with your life but i know you are not"
"oh ye ke, takpe... tenkiu aaa..."
"miss, if tak mau tilik nasib kasik sedekah la skit" ---pandai lak dia mintak sedekah, god knows whether he really knows the meaning of sedekah or not but aku tau duit aku bakal burn kalau tak singgit mau lima hinggit. dan disebabkan trauma dengan kes lampau, aku kasik le lima hinggit.
dia bercakap lagi.
"next month your luck will change but (jengjengjeng) ada satu perempuan sangat jeles sama you. you tell me your mom and dad's name i will tell you everything..."
sapa lak jeles ngan aku ni?? sebab aku cun ke? sebab aku ada anak hensem ke? ke sebab aku leh tumpang duduk umah mak mertua aku? ----hahahhahah.....!!!
"takpe boss. terima kasih aaa.." cepat2 aku nak masuk umah dia cakap lagi....
"miss, boleh kasi air ka? mau minum la"
"ooo you haus? kejap aaa..." nak je aku cakap, mana ko tak haus cakap takberenti.
aku masuk dalam umah tapi hati cuak gak. teringat balik kes lama, tapi aku kuat kan semangat. aku tgk dlm tv ustaz tu cakap nak menghalang or mematahkan pukau kita kena minum air limau nipis or atleast bau. aku tak sempat nak potong limau nipis, aku amik je sebijik tu masuk dlm poket. mana la tau kot2 kena pukau lagi (ye...dulu aku penah kena pukau)...
lepas daripada tu, aku tak sure india tu leh sense aku bawak limau nipis ke or dia mmg nak blah dah ke, dia amik air and cakap aku good luck and chow! sempat cakap good luck lagi tu.
moral of the story... sentiasa la bwk limau nipis, and ustaz tu cakap gak if takleh bwk limau nipis pakai lah minyak wangi kasturi putih. minum air teh o limau ais pun ok gak :D
moral of the story ke2 nya, sapa kah org yg jeles tu... (HAHHAHAHAH!!! ----ketawa berunsur2 jahat skit)
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