Is This How You Spell M A R R I A G E ?

i have been married since 2003. i have known my husband since 1995 and we dated in 1996...
(just count on how many years we've known each other)
and like other married couples, we also had our own RollerCoasterRide!

before marriage, i was an independent person.
or should i say that i love to be on my own without nobody watching my back.
sure, i also love care and attention from my family but a mild one will do, please.

after marriage, i thought i had prepare myself for changes
but i thought too soon...
everything we do (i was not exaggerating when i say 'everything'...)
they know
sometimes they comment (or most of the times)

a relative said ... "dah lama tak balik kampung..." referring to us, saying they have not seen us at kampung for quite a long time - why the hell you didnt balik kampung? (i exaggerated on that 'hell')
well... which kampung are you referring to?
Seremban? Sg Talan? Muar? Kelantan? or even Melaka?
frankly speaking, the only kampung that we visited recently was Kelantan - that was also bcos my Grandpa died!
other kampung??? what kampung? we barely handle commuting between 2 HOUSES and what kampung are you talking about?!
i saw my in laws EVERYDAY
i met my mom sometimes... even if i stay in her house i barely see her cos she sleeps as early as 9pm! and weekend she goes back to melaka
i met my dad once in a blue moon cos he is in melaka and whenever we met, either one of us got the chance to talk (i think PRU12 conversation was the longest we had so far)
i met my siblings once in a while - Liz and Youl; Aiyshah more frequent
i have not been back to Muar in AGES!!

so, let me ask again - WHAT KAMPUNG ARE YOU REFERRING TO?

don't ask where we will be if you don't know where we were... cos we barely grip our life right now and i don't know about my husband but i barely can't breathe...