this article is for those with children
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i have 2 little boys, whom i love very much
somebody always remind me to give time for my children, quality time if not quantity
cos, believe it or not, whatever time you give to them now, those are what you are getting later when you get old.
i have seen few cases, old folks being left out just because their children had to work and no time to take care of them... bukan tak sayang cuma takde masa... sounds familiar? bukan kita tak sayang anak2 tapi takde masa nak jaga diorg. balik kerja dah penat, being children, all they wanted to do is share every story they have with their beloved parents. but we are too tired to sometimes just pretend we are listening...
it is easier said than done, but it is worth all your effort to try. cos bila dah tua, if terasa anak2 busy, and of course at old age kawan2 pun ramai dah tak ada, loneliness started to creep back in... it will be too late.
and also, what we are doing to our parents, our kids are also observing.... :D
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